I know this is late, but I got the Star--which indicates you at least TRIED to reconcile. He is willing to TALK to you and discuss the dissolution hearing and I think if you are calm and patient, it can lead to reconciliation.
I’ve used tarot cards my first thoughts is the connection between you two was controlling or there weren’t many choices and decisions made mutually during your time together . You Elizabeth being the independent free loving nurture you will always wonder what would have been with him in the future. By having a mediator help lay I t all out and break up the foundation turning your back on your comfort zone letting go of what was and holding on to what inspires you will help you See new beginnings and opportunities see a new you.
Using tarot I'm picking up on the fact that the option for reconciliation may appear, however it would be best for you to let go of this relationship which has reached its natural conclusion. In doing so, you are allowing yourself to discover new love, new romance, and explore new possibilities. If you do decide on reconciliation however, the intensity of your feelings for your husband will burn bright for a time, but as you'll find yourself needing to sacrifice strength and pride to keep him close, you will become restless and tired of the fight. Reconciliation possible after divorce.