I've been seeing a guy since January. His ex-girlfriend just moved back in with him a month ago but he is still contacting me on a regular basis. I don't know what he's thinking or where I stand in this.
Dear Nikki, the cards reveal this guy is still making contact because he feels a passionate connection with you that he likes and he might not feel this with his ex-girlfriend. Although, they both tried to move on, it seems that she moved back in to try to work on the relationship, having found it difficult to leave.
He could want to apologise and to make things right with you. Was there an issue in the past with someone not opening up as much emotionally? I see that he desires to have something solid, real and
Looking at just the information given absolutely does look like he's using me. However, his actions do not lead me to feel that way. Especially when there are many times he wants to see me to take me somewhere or just hang out. No sex involved or expected. Thanks for your guidance! We'll see how this plays out.
Hi Nikki, thank you for your question. What I am feeling is that you are in a very unfair situation and in order for you to truly find out where you stand you need to set some boundaries and let him know what you are comfortable with and what you are not. At this point he is taking advantage of you and his ex and its not fair because you are truly putting work in. If boundaries aren't set I see you wishing for things to be like they were and ultimately leaving the relationship.
My intuition tells me straight away this guy is playing you. He has and is taking advantage of your niceness. He has his "ex" gf living with him and he has you he contacts regular, you stand in a three way relationship this will end in tears. walk away with your dignity because you deserve so much more x